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inTEGra95 |
stag or bachelorette parties
Aug 21 2008, 8:27 PM EDT
So my bf and i were chatting and he mentioned what went on at some stag parties (which I had no idea..i thought it was just girls stripping and thats it....boy was i wrong with some i had no idea that its basically like real life porn that goes on....).... so my question to him was...why is it ok or acceptable for guys to touch a girls boob or get a lap dance or feel a girl up at a stag party or even a strip bar and its not ok or acceptable or its considered cheating if you do those same things at a bar? To me...i feel its wrong no matter what...what do you think?
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armkaleka |
1. RE: stag or bachelorette parties
Aug 23 2008, 9:18 PM EDT
This is definitely a source of some problems. I think the best idea is for a couple to openly communicate the things that are sacred to them in a relationship, once these guidelines and boundaries are set down and agreed to... then follow them. for some cultures, a sexy look with a flick of the tongue can be considered cheating, while others allow men and women to openly touch and feel other people without being considered so. I tend to agree with your view on the stag parties. Men usually only need an inch in order to take a mile.
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yogaangel71 |
2. RE: stag or bachelorette parties
Aug 25 2008, 11:28 AM EDT
Now, now.. Lets not talk about inches ; )I think the whole stag party is a point of contention in a lot of espoused couples!! I've heard wild stories about last nights of freedom! I also have friends who get really upset when talking about their spouses/boyfriends going to strip clubs etc.. For me I think I would seriously be more upset with the money wasted than I would at the fact that they were looking at naked girls.. But thats just me! Do you find this valuable? |
costume_girl |
3. RE: stag or bachelorette parties
Aug 28 2008, 1:34 PM EDT
I'm of the "Look but don't touch" school of thought. Strippers? Fine. Naked chicks? Fine, it's not like you don't see that in films, just don't touch. I once went to a bachelorette party, and the bride and male stripper disappeared for a half hour into a bedroom, that is something to be concerned about, when it goes beyond looking.
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armkaleka |
4. RE: stag or bachelorette parties
Aug 28 2008, 2:05 PM EDT
yup, going to another room for a quickie is definitely a concern, and also against a number of moral and ethical codes > no matter what culture. I like the "look but don't touch" approach.
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filmchik1 |
5. RE: stag or bachelorette parties
Aug 28 2008, 9:49 PM EDT
I am with you inTEGra95. I feel its wrong no matter what. Not only is it wrong, but the entire concept of "bachelor parties, stag parties, bachelorette parties,etc" seems like an ancient heathen ritual that has been perpetuated by low-self worth individuals who get their "ego-rocks" off by flirting, fondling, and having sex with strangers. These types of parties have absolutely no value in current society, nor do they honor the sacred bond of a loving couple about to be married. In my opinion they only serve to degrade commitment values. As long as we all accept them by saying things, like "oh, boys will be boys" or "its just a girls-night out" then the "ritual" of these types of parties will continue. It would be an entirely different matter if these "parties" were truly just harmless fun, having a few drinks with good friends, making jokes,and giving sexy gifts. BUT, most of them are not like that. I have a brother and many male friends and I have heard absolute HORROR stories about what really goes on at bachelor parties. Girlfriend....trust me...you do not want to know. It is actually worse than most people would think.
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